AI-GENERATED SUMMARY

This sermon begins a series on the “Book of the Covenant” (Exodus 21–23), examining the case laws regarding slavery and marriage as ethical instructions that guide God’s people from bondage to freedom1,2. Pastor Tuuri interprets the laws concerning a slave wife or a second wife (Exodus 21:10-11) as establishing the “joyful obligations” of a husband to provide food, clothing, and marital rights, arguing that failure to do so is grounds for divorce where the wife retains her dowry3,2,4. He connects these judicial statutes to the concept of “high fidelity” in marriage, asserting that the law protects women and encourages the maturation of men into responsible dominion1,2. The practical application calls the congregation to respond to God’s law with the affirmation, “All that the Lord has commanded, we will do,” recognizing that these laws reflect the character of the wise Judge of the earth5,6.

SERMON TRANSCRIPT

# Sermon Transcript – Reformation Covenant Church

Exodus 21:1-11. Exodus 21:1-11. Please stand for the reading of God’s word. Exodus 21 beginning at verse one.

Now these are the judgments which you shall set before them. If you buy a Hebrew servant, he shall serve six years, and in the seventh he shall go out free and pay nothing. If he comes in by himself, he shall go out by himself. If he comes in married, then his wife shall go out with him. If his master has given him a wife, and she has borne him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her master’s, and he shall go out by himself.

But if the servant plainly says, “I love my master, my wife, and my children. I will not go out free.” Then his master shall bring him to the judges. He shall also bring him to the door or to the doorpost, and his master shall pierce his ear with an awl, and he shall serve him forever. And if a man sells his daughter to be a female slave, she shall not go out as the male slaves do. If she does not please her master, who has betrothed her to himself, then he shall let her be redeemed.

He shall have no right to sell her to a foreign people, since he has dealt deceitfully with her. And if he has betrothed her to his son, He shall deal with her according to the custom of daughters. If he takes another wife, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, and her marriage rights. And if he does not do these three for her, then she shall go out free without paying money.

Let’s pray.

Father, we thank you for your Spirit and we pray now, Lord God, that your Spirit would do his work. We know he has come to teach us things of the Savior and to write this law upon our hearts and to change us and transform us, make us go from glory to glory. Help us, Father, then to have our ears opened, circumcised to hear your word, not to have them stopped up. And help us to have open hands this week, that we might do all things in accordance with this your word. Grant us your law graciously, Lord God, and cause us to rejoice in it.

In Christ’s name we ask it. Amen.

Please be seated.

The subject today is the dowry and other joyful obligations of God’s law for us. We are preparing for family camp. I said before that Psalm 119 finds itself at the conclusion of a series of psalms of ascent going up to the mountain of God to receive the law. And so we go up to the festival in a week or so, most of us that is. And we’ll hear the word of God preached to us, taught to us that we might enjoy God’s word and enjoy our joyful obligations presented in it.

And we prepare ourselves today by looking at a particular portion of what some people call case law. I wanted to follow up last week’s sermon. What we’ve done is we moved from the patriarchal period and looked at the fall, creation and fall, looked at that in terms of its relationship to male-female relationships. And then we looked at the patriarchal period looking particularly at again male-female relationships and marriages particularly.

And then we’ve begun a consideration of the laws of God that follow the patriarchal period, now in the book of Exodus relative to marriage. And what I wanted to say was that what we see here today has some significance to the seventh commandment. We dealt with that last week. Thou shalt not commit adultery. And we talked about the fact that adultery really means to add something other to a relationship, to add another party to it in the case of marriage.

And this produces an adulteration of the marriage relationship. And we’ve said that our country has become adulterated and moving away from fidelity, which is probably the summation of the seventh commandment—fidelity to God and not being idolatrous and not being adulterous relative to our relationship to him as his bride, and being faithful as well to our spouses in the context of the marriage relationship.

We said that our country has moved away from fidelity and faithfulness and the resultant duty and honor that those that central tenant of the seventh commandment would dictate. And what I didn’t say last week and what I should have said, and what I would like to say this week, is that it is the church of God that has led the nation in this error. The church has become adulterated. The Christian life, the way that Christians are to walk in, has become adulterated because they’ve moved away from the church—of course, the law of God as a means of understanding God’s will for our lives—to some sort of appreciation of supposedly a spirit-filled walk that is given to us apart from the teaching of God’s word and from his law.

The Spirit ministers to us through words and particularly through the words of the scriptures and particularly in the exhortations of ministers and friends and family relative to that law word, which is a grace word to us as well. The church has sought out in the way the Lord Jesus Christ a way that differs from the law of God. What we’ve seen is that the seventh commandment, and we’ll see today that the case laws as well, reiterate the way, the life that the patriarchs lived.

They knew the law of God. Now, if somebody wants to say today that the Spirit of God is given to us to lead us in the way of the Lord Jesus Christ, that is good and that is fine. I agree with that. But if the patriarchs walked in conformity to what is articulated by way of principles and the case laws, why would the Spirit lead us in a different way? If we have the patriarchs knowing the law of God and then that law becoming codified in the Ten Commandments and then the various laws of the Pentateuch reflecting the spirit-led life of the patriarchs, then why would we see something different reflected in the spirit-led life of the Christian?

I think the answer is we wouldn’t.

So, the church has moved away from the commandments of God and thus has produced an adulterous church, a church that goes after the manipulations and stratagems and principles of men for how they’re to affect the world instead of looking at the word of God and meditating in it. Psalm 1 tells us that the way of the righteous is a meditation in the law of God day and night—ultimately only true of the Lord Jesus Christ but as we are in him we reflect that, we reflect the life of Christ who is the way, the truth, and the life—by a meditation in his word and in his law. And that’s the way society moves forward and advances, not through marketing techniques, not through evangelistic campaigns that are not based solely upon the word of God, etc. So the church has produced the adulteration that we see in our culture today, and it’s done so by means of departure from the law of God and also from a departure from the plain outspoken fact of the New Testament that the Lord Jesus Christ reigns over men and nations now, and all nations will be discipled to know the Savior.

The law is not in opposition to God’s grace. If we as a saved people want to know how God wants us to live, it is gracious of God to tell us statutes, commandments, and judgments to inform us what the spirit-filled walk looks like. He pictures it for us in the lives of the patriarchs. He pictures it for us in the life of the Lord Jesus Christ. And he tells us explicitly by way of the law what the spirit-filled gracious walk is.

It is the grace of God that provides clear direction for our lives. It is man’s desire for autonomy to suppress the truth of God in unrighteousness that leads him away from the law of God. It’s a desire—it’s the desire to figure out for myself the best way to love my wife or my husband, the best way to care for my children, the best way to build a church or a Christian culture—apart from the word of God that produces this departure from God’s law and the adulterating effects on community.

We turn today to a specific portion of, as I said, God’s case law. We turn to Exodus 21. Now in Exodus 20, Moses receives the 10 words or the Ten Commandments from God and then God gives them some instruction about approaching him in worship. And then we have this section, Exodus 21-23, which represents in a compact, boiled-down form the case laws of God that are given to a redeemed people to teach them how to live holy and how to build a Christian culture.

So what we look at today are the first 11 verses of this section of three chapters of Exodus that are the law of the covenant.

Turn if you will to Exodus chapter 24. Let’s look at verse 3 and then verse 6.

Exodus 24:3: “Moses came and told the people all the words of the Lord.” That’s a reference to the Ten Commandments, the Ten. “And all the judgments,” that’s a reference to Exodus 21-23. “And all the people answered with one voice and said, ‘All the words which the Lord has said we will do.’”

Now, they say the words, the Ten Commandments, because the judgments, as we said last week, really flow out from the words. They’re attached to it here in terms of this covenant formula, but they can be summed up in the people saying, “We’ll obey all the words.”

And then look at what he does, of course. He takes an altar and there’s sacrificing of whole burnt offerings and peace offerings. And then verse 6: “Moses took half of the blood and put it in the basins. Half the blood he sprinkled on the altar. Then he took the book of the covenant and read it in the hearing of the people. And they said, ‘All that the Lord has said we will do and be obedient.’” And Moses takes the blood, sprinkles on the people, and says, “This is the blood of the covenant which the Lord has made with you according to all these words.”

So Moses reads the law of the covenant to the people in this covenant formulation with them, assuming and taking the covenant of God upon themselves. What was the law of the covenant?

Well, what it was: the 10 words of Exodus 20, the Ten Commandments, plus the judgments that are referred to in verse three, which are Exodus 21-23. So, at the heart of covenant renewal under Moses is this law of the covenant that defines their relationship as God’s people. We come together in Christian worship and we don’t offer burnt sacrifices or peace offerings, but we do remember the once-for-all offering of the Lord Jesus Christ.

And we come together as people that are called to give him worship because we’re his people, and he tells us how to live holy lives and he tells us that by means of the law of the covenant. So, it’s instructive for us to look at the law of the covenant. When we sing things like we just sang, those verses of Psalm 119, and we assert these things in formal worship, we better mean it. We better mean that we really do intend to meditate on God’s word and on his law specifically and that we’re thankful for it.

Have you meditated on Exodus 21-23 lately? Say in the abstract we can say we’ll read the Bible. Well, okay. And it’s true that all the Bible is God’s law to us. It’s all his covenant word to us. But there are these symbolized, condensed forms of that law. The Ten Commandments are a condensation. And Exodus 21-23 are important unpacking of what’s in the Ten Commandments. And it behooves us to meditate upon these words frequently because they inform us on what holy living is.

And that’s what we’re going to do today: look at a portion of this and specifically some stuff that relates to marriage. But we’ll deal with all of the first 11 verses.

Now before the case laws actually begin, there is the introduction to them in verse one.

“Now these are the judgments which you shall set before them.”

Now a couple of things about these judgments. We’ve said that the law of God predates this formalization of the written code in Exodus 20 and 21-23. And indeed we find in Genesis 18:19: God goes and he’s going to talk to Abraham and he says in the council of the Trinity, “I’ve known Abraham in order that he may command the children and his household after him that they keep the way of the Lord to do righteousness and justice.” Abraham will command his family to do justice. That’s the same word for the judgments that are articulated here in Exodus 21.

What we’re going to read in Exodus 21-23, God ahead of time said that Abraham was going to teach those judgments and make sure his children walked in them. Abraham knew these things. See, they were given to Abraham before they were given to Israel at Sinai. Again, in Genesis 26:5, we read God saying about Abraham that “Abraham obeyed my voice and kept my charge, my commandments, my statutes, and my laws.”

Very specific terminology that will later refer to various aspects of the written code that God gives Israel at Sinai and then later. But here it’s referring to what happened to Abraham long before Sinai. So again, the point I’m making here is that these judgments are not new. They were found in the context of God’s people. He had revealed them by a way which we do not know. But he had revealed them to Abraham and to his people prior to codifying them here as Israel is formed into a nation.

And as I said, this word judgment is the same word that’s repeated in Exodus 24:3. So it’s the judgments that articulate the 10 words of God.

So, first of all, this introduction to the case laws uses this terminology of judgments and that is a specific word referring to council wisdom relative to particular cases. Now, some people have referred to these judgments as civil law. Without getting into a big discussion of this, I think that what we can see in the laws of God, including this section, Exodus 21-23, certainly have civil applications to them.

After all, they are judgments. They’re judicial matters. But they also clearly have a moral character. We would agree with that. Yes, the civil magistrate punishes certain things that are immoral. It’s immoral for a man not to do what this law says he should do relative to his slave. And it’s immoral not to do what the scriptures say to do in terms of our wives, as we’ll talk about in a couple of minutes.

So, these scriptures have judicial or civil intent, but they also have a moral, personal intent. And I think we could probably say as well that they have a ceremonial aspect to them. There is the shedding of blood referred to here at the door of the house of the servant by the piercing through of the ear. And as we get to that text, we’ll talk a little bit about other portions of the scriptures that seem to say that it’s Jesus who is the one who is circumcised of ear, and we covenantally in him become circumcised of ear as well.

The circumcision of the ear, I think, is here being spoken of. And the point here is that when we read these judgments, we do not want to simply say that they are civil statutes alone. They have a civil component to them. They have a moral component. And I believe they also have in nearly all of them a ceremonial component. Jesus said that all these things spoke of him and of his ministry.

Now we’re going to talk about the details of these laws, but remember what I just said from Exodus 24. The people in response to these judgments taught to them by Moses said that all the things that God has commanded us to do, we will do. Now, that’s the response that I’m exhorting you to and I’m exhorting myself to today after we’ve looked at these laws in verses 1-11.

And if you think my exposition has been correct, and if not, what your exposition of the text is—in other words, we differ in the meaning of it. But once we get behind that, once you come to an understanding of what verses 1-11 mean to you, the question is: will you say, “All that the Lord has commanded, I will do”? That’s the response when you come forward today with your tithes and offerings. That’s what you’re saying. See, you’re coming before God in reference, in response to the preached word and saying, “All that the Lord has commanded me, I will do.” God is renewing covenant with you, and he calls on you to renew faithfulness to him.

By the assertion of your words: “All that the Lord has commanded, I will do.”

Okay, now on your outline, before we get to point two, I mentioned again by way of review mostly that the laws of slavery we can see reflected in the life of Jacob and Laban. We talked about that before. The laws of seduction we can see reflected in the patriarchal story of Dinah and her brothers. The case laws of seduction were being followed by her brothers and by Shechem.

The law of the levirate is pictured for us in Tamar and Judah. Remember that sermon that I preached on Tamar and Judah. The law of the levirate precedes Levitical law or the giving of the law at Sinai. And also the patriarchs knew the difference between clean and unclean animals before they were designated in the written code. Again, the point is here that what we find in these codes is simply the articulation of what the people of God already knew was their way of life before him.

And the second point of application marked by the asterisk is God’s law for civil magistrates.

Now, we don’t think here that what we can do is just cut these laws out and adopt them into the Oregon Revised Statutes. That’s not the point. But the point is God here addresses a specific situation in the life of his people. And think about that just a little bit. What is going on in the life of his people? We have had a patriarchal period where we’re dealing mostly with families—large families.

Of course, Abraham probably had thousands in his extended household, but still somewhat small. And now the people have been multiplied by God in Egypt and they come out millions strong. Okay. So now we have an entire culture of people, and this is why the codification of law comes at this particular point. Now for such a group of people we need a written code for easy transmission of it, instruction in it, and that the civil magistrates may rule in accordance with it.

So we have these developed particular statutes and they do inform the civil magistrate. But it doesn’t say, as I said, it sort of mingles in together moral instructions, judicial instructions, and ceremonial instructions both in Exodus and then in its retelling or recasting in the book of Deuteronomy.

So what Umberto Cassuto calls these judgments, as quoted by James B. Jordan in his book on the law of the covenant, Exodus 21-23, Cassuto refers to these things that we’ll be reading now in a moment as ethical instruction in judicial matters. Ethical instructions in judicial matters. So that if you’re a judge in Israel or if you’re a civil magistrate in Oregon, you meditate on these particular statutes that are called judgments and have implication for the civil magistrate, and you think about the equity of these particular statutes and how you would apply them today. See, so it’s not a matter of cut and paste. It’s saying: what were the findings of the most wise, the most powerful, and omniscient judge of all the earth? What did he decide to do in a case where a man sold himself into slavery? And then what general truth of the Ten Commandments is reflected in that? What truth of God’s character is reflected in that I should apply in the drafting of laws in Oregon today? That’s the idea. Okay?

And in some cases, it’s quite easy. When theft is punished by restitution, as it is in Exodus 21-23, then that’s a fairly clear call that instead of prisons we should have systems of restitution. Other things it’s not quite so clear. So understand that these are ethical instructions in judicial matters. They take the ethics of God’s way and call the civil magistrate to obey them.

The point here is that, as we said at the beginning of this, the church has said we’ll determine for ourselves what’s good and bad in terms of what we should do relative to our spouses. We’ll take some truths from the New Testament but don’t look at those laws of the Old Testament. They don’t apply to us. And then the civil culture then has followed that and said, “Well, if the church can determine good and evil, certainly the state can by itself, and we’ll decide what laws we should have autonomously, not in submission to God’s word.”

God’s word calls us to evaluate these ethical instructions for civil magistrates and see in them what sort of laws should frame a Christian culture today as well. Okay.

Well, let’s look specifically at these particular instructions and draw some equity out of them in terms of specifically our marriage relationships today. Okay.

There are two sets of cases. Both involve servitude. The first case involves servitude where a man sells himself into indebted servitude or bondage for purposes of labor. Let us put that.

And the main provision is given in verse two. The major provision is a six-year limitation for Christian bondservants. “If you buy a Hebrew servant.” Okay. Designation: a Hebrew servant. This law does not apply to non-Hebrew servants, those outside of the family of faith. So, it applies to Christian bondservants.

First of all, “he shall serve six years, and in the seventh he shall go out free and pay nothing.”

And also, another thing you need to know here is that the word for buy is not a specific word for buy. It’s a general word for acquire by any means. So, it doesn’t necessarily mean that money has exchanged hands. It means to acquire a servant.

Now, one reason why a person could acquire a Hebrew bondservant is if the bondservant steals something or the man steals something from somebody else and can’t pay restitution and then he is indebted to the person he stole from to pay off the debt. Okay, that’s one way of acquiring the bond servant. Another is for the Hebrew man to be so in debt that to remove himself from debt, he places himself in an indebted servitude to a master for a period of time because he can’t relieve his debts any other way.

Those are the two main ways that these sorts of servants, indebted servants, slaves—but don’t think, you know, of the kind of slaves that we’re used to in American history, men that have been kidnapped. That was illegal according to the law of God. Kidnapping was a capital offense. But rather, these were bonded, indebted servants who were serving to work off a debt in terms of restitution or to eliminate the poverty in their complete inability to provide for themselves or their families.

So that’s what’s going on here. These were Christian bondservants. And what the scriptures tell us is that in these cases, the servant can only serve for six years and in the seventh he goes free.

Now clearly there’s a reference to the sabbatical year here—and the sabbatical period of a week of rest: six years and then a year of rest for the land, etc. But it seems to be phrased in such a way as to allow actually a full six years of servanthood and then release in the seventh year from when he began to serve.

Now we won’t take the time to look here, but you’ll see I referenced Deuteronomy 15:12-18 and Jeremiah 34:9-16. Now in Deuteronomy 15 it says: “If your brother, a Hebrew man or a Hebrew woman is sold to you and served six years. In the seventh year, you shall let him go free from you.”

So, Deuteronomy fleshes this out a bit more. When we get to the next set of servitude relationships involving women in just a bit here in the second part of the sermon, that will involve women who have become bondservants for purposes of marriage. Okay? In the Hebrew Republic, a woman could also be a bondservant for labor. And if she was a bondservant for labor purposes—you know, housemaid, whatever it was—she also had to be let go in the seventh year and released totally from her bondedness or indebtedness.

And the general principle here is one that we should understand: that in the seventh year, the Hebrew person was to be free. They should have learned their lesson for their irresponsibility of debt or their irresponsibility of theft and in the seventh year become a free person in their own right. So the whole purpose of the bonded indebtedness of servants was to move the man or the woman to responsibility and freedom. There was no perpetual indebtedness except for a case which we’ll see in just a moment.

Now, another thing that Deuteronomy 15 tells us is that when the servant is let go in the seventh year, he is to be given a bunch of provisions from the flock, from the grain crops and from the fruit crops. So, he’s to be actually supplied with an initial start for his own household.

Now having learned responsibility through his servitude, he then becomes a responsible man and goes out with gifts from the master. And the master has gotten all this service from him, and the master then loads him down with goods as much as he can carry, seems to be the implication of Deuteronomy 15. So that’s the major provision of this first set of five laws.

Now just a comment about this: these laws can and are frequently ridiculed or derided by people as being some kind of Old Testament pro-slavery anti-humanistic ordinance. Nothing could be further from the truth. Servitude, slavery, has been a fact of man’s existence since the fall. And in most cultures, slavery is treated far more poorly than it was under these gentle, gracious laws of the sovereign who is all wise as well as all powerful and all-loving to his people.

Servitude, slavery of one race to another is frequent, and the races differ. Every race, it seems, thinks that their race is the supreme race on the earth. And in the Adamic nature, every race wants to enslave the other races that don’t look like them. And men are the same way. Men move to domination as we saw in the life of Lamech, and power over other men.

The scriptures, on the other hand, have as the purpose of their indebted servitude laws, as I said, to drive home the twin lessons of responsibility, but then also the need for freedom. You see, it’s an illusion today in America to say we’ve gotten rid of servitude, gotten rid of all these things because we’ve done away with indebted servants at this as this country once had it at its inception.

And what happens today is that people are in tremendous indebtedness and yet have the illusion of not being indebted, have the illusion of prosperity, and so become more and more irresponsible in the context of their lives. And so, as our culture increases in indebtedness and does not have the corrective mechanism of indebted servitude that the scriptures provide or some other alternative to it that is in accordance with biblical law, what we see is an increase in irresponsibility in the culture, an increase in the debt cycle, and eventually collapse.

And so there’s nothing kind to a man who is irresponsible and doesn’t held to some sort of standard to demonstrate to himself his irresponsibility.

Notice also that the servant is not placed in servitude to the civil state. He’s put in the context of a household. Now, it’s probably an extended household. Abraham’s household is an example—thousands probably of people in it. One hundred thirty servants of the house. We’ll talk about that in just a minute. So, lots of servants for Abraham. It’s not typically an isolated little household like we think of, but still it’s put in the context of an environment where hard work will be required.

The servant didn’t get paid and he got beaten on his backside, his butt, if he didn’t do his work well, ’cause he needed motivation. The whole point of the servant is most people go into servitude. They don’t have proper motivation for work. They haven’t learned the work ethic. They haven’t learned how to be responsible. And they’re going to be trained in a family just like what? Just like children. That’s right. That’s what we do with children. They’ve rejected maturity. They’ve stayed childlike, and they’re brought back into oversight, covenantal oversight of fathers to train them to maturity to get them in that seventh year out of the house.

One modern day application of this may be indebted servitude to family-run businesses. Remember that these households were extended households. They were big households. Work was going on in the context of them that isn’t just sitting around the house. And if you look at Abraham’s family, as we said, it looks more like indebted bond servitude to a corporation perhaps run by a family or a series of families than it would to what we think of as a family today.

So God’s law is gracious. It provides correction to irresponsible men, and yet it also puts out at the end of that time liberty, and in fact establishment, by the master as he lets his servant go. Okay.

Then we have some minor provisions for this law.

First, if there’s solitary entrance, then solitary exit.

Verse three: “If he comes in by himself, he goes out by himself.” Okay, it’s clear enough. If he’s married beforehand, then he’s married. His wife goes with him when he goes out. The verse goes on to say, “If he comes in married, then his wife shall go out with him.” Okay? So, even though he indebts himself and his wife is with him, she doesn’t stay there. She doesn’t become the property of the master in that sense.

Verse four: “If his master has given him a wife, and she has borne him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her master’s, and he shall go out by himself.”

Now again, this seems objectionable to our modern ears. But we got to remember this is the most gracious, most wise, most loving God of his covenant people, giving laws by which a godly culture will run itself.

And one of these laws has to do with this man who comes in irresponsible. His master, he sees another servant in the household—of Abraham, one of the other five hundred or so—wants her for a wife. He doesn’t have a dowry. He can’t establish the household himself. He’s a servant after all. But yet, it’s not good for men to be alone. So, the master is to consider that and allow his servants to marry.

If that’s the case, though, and the man goes out, then at the seventh year, his wife can’t go with him. Now, in part, that’s a protection for the wife. After all, we don’t know for sure the man has established himself as a responsible adult male. If he has established himself, if he’s learned the lesson of the indebted servitude and he goes out and establishes himself and becomes a wage earner and produces production for his household, then he can go and redeem the wife, who is in the same position he was in, in need of redemption from the master.

So, so it protects the wife against an irresponsible relationship with a man who has no really viable resources except what his master gives him upon his exit. He has to provide for himself and produce the redemption price, the dowry as it were, for his wife, or she stays there.

Now the other thing is they could certainly have conjugal relationships. They could certainly come and visit or they could spend time together, but he just can’t take her away from the household until her seventh year comes up or until she is redeemed from her contract of indebtedness.

Like I said, Deuteronomy 15 and Jeremiah shows us that these truths were true of female servants as well as male.

Now, I got in the outline here obligations of Christian parents. There’s a sense in which of course through all of this it’s a picture of our relationship to God. We’ll talk more about this as the day progresses, but ultimately we have to say that we—all those who are irresponsible in our Adamic nature—have been brought into service to God. And in that service to God, we have been provided wives and children. And this text reminds us of that. And it should remind us of our stewardship responsibilities to the children God has provided.

Ultimately, they’re the master’s children for us. Yes. In Malachi, why does he seek, why does he have people marry? To seek a godly seed, to seek a seed for himself. Our children are God’s children. Our wives are God’s possessions, ultimately, as are we.

And when we think of our marriages and our families, we should have a renewed sense of responsibility to train them correctly because they are the King’s—rather, God’s—kids.

Another thing that we see here, relative to our household, is that God is gracious towards servants in training them to become responsible and moving them toward maturity. And so we should also be gracious and beneficent in our actions toward our children. They’re in the right way as these indebted servants were. They’re not paid. They’re given beatings if they don’t obey. But just like the servants, we’re supposed to be training them for their release into full free-holding status as citizens of the culture.

We could talk also about the civil implications of this: being that these men who were servants didn’t exercise the franchise to vote for representatives in Israel. You had to be out of servitude. You weren’t a full citizen in these cases. And the implications of that for our culture are great. But let’s go on and we have more things to talk about.

Four, if perpetual servanthood is desired by the servant, his ear is pierced.

Verse 5: “If the servant plainly says, ‘I love my master, my wife, and my children. I will not go out free.’ Then his master shall bring him to the judges. He shall also bring him to the door or to the doorpost and his master shall pierce his ear with an awl and he shall serve him forever.”

Now I have a cross reference here in Deuteronomy 15:12-18. We referred to that earlier in terms of saying that the same law applies to male slaves for labor applies to female slaves for labor, and it talks also about going out being loaded with gifts. And it also refers to this same truth here: that if the servant loves his master, he can assert this solemnly before the judges and then he can have his ear pierced through at the doorpost of the house and be in perpetual service to his master.

Now I bring up the cross reference in Deuteronomy because while this text tells us that one of the motivations may be a love for the wife that his master has provided, that is omitted from the Deuteronomy text. So the point is: if you take these two texts together, the primary motivation for the servant who becomes a perpetual servant is love for his master. That’s what’s going on. And it may have a corollary love for his wife and the children that the master has provided, but ultimately it’s love for his master that moves him toward this position.

What’s going on here?

Well, I’ve given you some references there from the book of Jeremiah, chapter 6, 10. Turn to that if you would.

Jeremiah 6:10: “To whom shall I speak and give warning that they may hear? Indeed, their ear is uncircumcised and they cannot give heed.” You see, people who are not obedient to God are described as having uncircumcised ears. In Jeremiah 10. Turn to Acts 7:51.

Acts 7:51: “You stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears. You always resist the Holy Spirit. As your fathers did, so do you.” Uncircumcised not just in their hearts but in their ears. You see? And now turn to Psalm 40 verse 6.

Psalm 40 beginning at verse 6: “Sacrifice and offering you did not desire; relatively speaking. My ears you have opened. Burnt offering and sin offering you did not require. Then I said, ‘Behold, I come in the scroll of the book. It is written of me. I delight to do your will, oh my God. Your law is within my heart.’”

You see, the servant of God loves to do his will, loves the master of masters more than anything else. And he is one who moves from having his ear uncircumcised, plugged up, to hearing the word of God and obeying it, to having his ear opened by God and now hearing the will of his master and doing it.

I think that’s what’s going on in the case law application of the servant having his ear pierced through. Now, some speculate that what we could have here is a feminization of the man who rejects freedom. But, you know, I don’t find anywhere in the scriptures where it talks about men being feminized by having their ear pierced through. I think the picture here is the circumcising, the opening up of the ear of the servant, and moving him from a state of not really hearing the master to hearing him instead.

That’s what’s happened to this servant as he’s lived under the context of a loving master. The response back is the desire to serve him perpetually. Now his status changes. Then in the Old Testament you can be just a normal servant, a bonded servant like this guy is. But then the next status up you can have is you can be a servant of the house—a servant of the house, homeborn servant, it’s referred to as in various places in the scriptures. A servant of the house is like a member of the family. He’s like adopted in. He’s like a counselor to the master. He’s the one who says, “It’s better to be a doorkeeper in the house of my master than you know these other great things that can happen to me away from the master.” The homeborn servant, the one who has moved from death to life, circumcision from the closed ear to open ear, from being dead to being alive, the recreation that circumcision is a picture of—who has a circumcised ear—is the one who loves his master and is dedicated to him.

I think that’s what’s going on here. And I think ultimately the picture again is the Lord Jesus Christ who was circumcised, as it were, who through the shedding of his blood obtained our redemption and opened our ears to hear the master of the house in which we have come to dwell. But this is pictured by way of illustration, and this law was to be carried out.

By the way, when the servant makes this assertion that he wants to do this, he has to go before the judges. And the word there is gods. Here and in other places of the scriptures, civil rulers are called gods—a reminder to them that they must indeed take the civil implications of these statutes, judgments, and apply them in their wisdom as judges.

But a reminder to us as well that our resistance to God takes the form of resistance to civil authorities, resistance to parents, resistance to church authorities. In our Sunday school class, our Bible class before church today, we talked about Psalm 1 and 2. The way of the wicked is the way of conspiracy to throw off the constraints of Christ’s government. And when we’re told here that we’re to go to the gods of the land who dwell in Salem, it’s a reminder to us to submit to the authorities that God has established, and it’s a reminder that in our fallen state we tend not to do that.

Okay. So love and service is connected here. And as we said, the servant has moved from irresponsibility to responsibility one way or the other. One picture of the moving to responsibilities is in the seventh year he goes free. He establishes his household. The other picture of responsibility is he loves his master so much, his master loves him and accepts him, and he’s adopted into the family of the master.

And now we come to a series of statutes regarding female slaves who are in servitude. They’re in servitude for marriage purposes.

The major provision: no seventh year release for betrothed female servants.

Verse 7: “If a man sells his daughter to be a female slave, she shall not go out as the male slaves do.”

Now, as I said at first reading, this looks like the difference between male and female slaves is that one goes out in the seventh year and the other ones don’t. But if we look at Deuteronomy, as we looked earlier, we see that indeed the female slaves went out in the seventh year as well. So what’s this talking about?

Well, it’ll become clear as we go through here, but what’s being talked about is a woman being going into an indebted or bonded servitude to a master for purposes of betrothal and marriage. That’s what’s being talked about here. And the point here is a simple one: that marriage is perpetual. It’s eternal. It doesn’t just last for six years. Not eternal, but it’s lifelong—till death do us part. Okay.

Then the minor provisions come.

If no marriage occurs, then another may provide her dowry, redeeming her.

Verse 8: “If she does not please her master who has betrothed her to himself, then he shall let her be redeemed. He shall have no right to sell her to foreign people since he has dealt deceitfully with her.”

Okay. Now, to understand this correctly, we must look a little bit further down in the case laws. Exodus 22:16 and 17. Look at that, please.

Exodus 22:16-17: “And what we read there is, ‘If a man entices a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall surely pay the bride price for her to be his wife. And if her father refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money according to the bride price of virgins.’”

Now, I’ve referenced on your outline Deuteronomy 22:28 and 29. And what we read there involving the same kind of case is that the father has the right to either say yes, this marriage will occur or no, it will not. But either way, the seducer has to pay the bride price to the woman because he’s humbled her—the responsibility of the man.

The point of these two case laws is that dowry was always seen as part of Hebrew marriage, of Israelite, of believing marriages. The bride price indicates that there is always a dowry attached to marriage or should be to have full marriage.

And as we said before when we were preaching through the lives of the patriarchs, there are two kinds of marriage—actually there’s three kinds of marriages. The normal, full-blown marriage that has a dowry attached to it to the wife. And secondly, concubinage marriage that has no dowry attached to it. Or third, this kind of servitude marriage where the dowry does not go to the girl, but the dowry goes to the girl’s father.

He is through whatever reason become so indebted and so wrapped up in financial problems that he contracts out, with his daughter’s permission obviously, that she will marry into this rich man’s family when she becomes of age. So he betroths her as it were to this man, and he takes the dowry instead of the girl getting the dowry. Now obviously that means that normally the girl gets the dowry and she becomes endowed. But in this case the father keeps the dowry.

Turn if you will to Genesis 31:14 and 15. And this will make more sense now hopefully to you. And this is about Rachel and Leah.

They answered and said to him, “Is there still any portion of inheritance for us in our father’s house? Are we not considered strangers by him? For he has sold us and also completely consumed our money.” See, they’re saying that again, they knew the law before it was codified. They’re saying that they have become less than full brides in the sense of becoming endowed brides. Jacob worked seven years for each of them. That money was their dowry. His wages was to be given to them as dowry for them by him. And they were to be full wives.

But Laban in his deception and in his eating up that dowry, he held it for them as a father is supposed to do, as a covenant until the covenantal transfer occurs. He held it, but he didn’t hold it as a good steward. He used all that money himself. And as a result, they were now in the position that the woman finds herself in Exodus 21. They were now sold into that betrothal to Jacob because they had no dowry provided by their father.

So that’s what’s going on here. First, there’s an assumption of dowry in the context of biblical marriage. And secondly, the dowry in the case of the indebted servitude wife…

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# Reformation Covenant Church – Q&A Session Transcript
**Pastor Dennis Tuuri**

**[SERMON: Case Law on Marriage and Dowry – Exodus 21:7-11]**

A master’s household is a rich household and she’s going there willfully. There’s nothing against her will that’s indicated by the text. Everybody agrees to this relationship. And the law specifically addresses this situation and says, you know, this situation which is okay could become bad if now the guy decides not to marry her. Okay?

So I’m the master. I’ve said I’m looking for a wife. You have problems, father. I’ll give you the dowry money instead of the girl. You give me the daughter. Daughter, are you okay with this? Yes. You seem like a good guy to me. You’ll be able to provide for me. Okay. She comes into the household and now the guy says, “Well, after seeing you for 6 months, you know, your cooking isn’t so good, and I’m not going to marry her.”

So he now is not going to marry her for some reason. And what the text tells us, what God’s law graciously tells us is the girl can be redeemed, but she can’t be sold to foreigners. In other words, somebody else can come along, another man who they want to get married, and he can provide dowry for her by giving it to the master to replace his dowry. Or the father can give the money back and the girl then returns to her father’s house. Somebody else provides the dowry substitute back to the master because he’s decided not to go through with it. But he cannot sell her into slavery to another nation into unbiblical slavery.

Okay. So this context reminds us again of the assumption of the dowry in normal biblical marriage. Relating to these other case laws, we see that there was to be a dowry provided for full marriage. And in the case of no dowry here, the woman is still protected because she can’t be sold to somebody else.

Now the dowry is given for several reasons. Number one, it was a screening device for the father of the bride. He could tell whether or not the young man approaching his wife to marry her had character as he worked out the dowry arrangements with him.

Secondly, the dowry provided protection for the wife in case of death of the husband. So you know he marries the wife, he doesn’t give her a dowry, he dies and now she has nothing to provide for herself and now she’s a widow which was not a good state to be in.

Third, it provided divorce insurance. The husband would, first of all, be restrained from divorce because he would be walking away from a sizable amount of money—maybe as much as 3 years’ wages. So it would restrain divorce and even if he did divorce for an improper cause as we’ll see in just a minute, she got to keep the dowry money. And so the dowry had a very important role in the protection of the woman from death and divorce and from an irresponsible husband.

But finally, the thing the dowry did is it provided her financial independence to a certain degree. She was not dependent upon the household to provide the normal necessities of life. She had her own resources. You know, Sarah had her own tent. Remember that when Isaac marries his wife, they go into Sarah’s tent, not Abraham’s tent. She has her own set of possessions, her own servants, her own dowry provided by Abraham. Probably Rebecca gets her own dowry. Rachel and Leah were supposed to have their own dowry as financial independence by which they could do things in the context of the home.

And so the dowry provides all these things. In the case of this woman, however, the dowry didn’t provide some of these things because it was taken instead by her father.

Now before we move on to her case I want to just pause and say that immediately we have application here that I believe—and if you think these scriptures I’ve talked about are correct—you have an obligation to obey the laws of dowry relative to biblical marriage.

If I’ve explained them correctly and if these texts have relevance for us today, which I think they do, then I have an obligation to say: yes, if this is the Master’s law for us, we want to walk in conformity to it. How can we do that though if we’ve already been married? I brought no dowry to the marriage. I’m a young man.

Well, if you’re a young man not yet married, the key for you is work hard. There is no set price—except in the case of seduction, the civil magistrate sets a particular price, a very high one for the dowry—but the dowry is arranged between the woman’s father and the suitor. It’s always a period of negotiation, like it was with Akim and Dina’s brothers and father. And that’s the way it’s supposed to be. It’s a screening device that the responsible father can care for his daughter by not letting her marry someone who’s irresponsible or who won’t protect her in the case of his death or his infidelity.

Now, one thing we can do by way of death provision is of course life insurance, and many of us have done that. The first life insurance company in this country was started by the Presbyterian mission board. They wanted to send missionaries out to the mission field who were young, who hadn’t been able to come up with the dowry, but they knew they should be married to go on the mission field—that it wasn’t good for men to be alone. So they provided a partial substitute for the dowry by providing life insurance for these young men. And that’s how life insurance, as I understand it, at least came to start in America—as a partial replacement for the dowry.

But of course, that doesn’t protect you against unfaithfulness on the part of the man. Ultimately, it seems that our responsibility is to try to provide for our wives a dowry even if we didn’t bring it to the marriage—to try to make it up for them in the context of the rest of our lives by giving them some degree of financial independence, a regular amount of money, or a large sum of money if you have it, to provide these kind of concerns being met and also a degree of financial independence.

It says in 1 Peter 3:7 that husbands are to dwell with their wives with understanding, giving honor to the wife. That word “honor” means pay or money. Now, it can mean honor in a broad sense, but its original meaning is to give money or pay to someone. The elder who is worthy of double honor means he gets double pay. And the wife here is to have honor given to her. And an excellent way of doing that is to fulfill the requirements of the biblical dowry to guard her as well as nurture her with those funds.

Now, in the case of this particular situation, as I said, she can be redeemed if the man doesn’t want her. And then secondly, if she does marry his son, then she’s adopted into the family. Again, we see marriage and adoption here. If he has betrothed her to his son, he shall deal with her according to the custom of daughters. So that means she’s adopted into the household.

Again, here even though it is a not quite the full marriage, she doesn’t have a dowry, she’s still seen as a member of this family. The covenantal transference to this family is complete and she is adopted into the family.

And then third, if he takes a second wife, she still must be provided adequate nurture, guarding, and conjugal relationships. Verse 10: If he takes another wife, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, or her marriage rights. Okay.

And so “food” here means substantial food. “Clothing” means substantial clothing. And “marriage rights” refers to the husband’s response to his wife—not just in terms of sexual relations, although it includes that, but I think in terms of communication and response as well.

So I think what we’re told here is that even in the case of polygamy—which should not occur—but if the master takes this wife or if his son does and a second wife is obtained, then he has responsibilities to this wife who, remember, does not have the provision of dowry to protect her. He has a particular obligation to continue to provide her food, clothing, and response on the part of his relationship to his wife.

This, I think, is probably what Paul is referring to in 1 Corinthians 7:3-5. He says in verse three, “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.” And then he says, “The wife’s body doesn’t belong to her; the husband’s doesn’t belong to him.” So the primary reference to affection here is physical relationships in 1 Corinthians 7. But I think his use of the broader term “affection” means these same things that are talked about in the case law.

All husbands have an obligation to provide these three basic necessities of life: adequate food, adequate clothing, and good response. Response is what the word literally means—certainly involving sexual relations, but also involving communion and communication as well. This is a responsibility of all men. And Paul says that in terms of response, it’s an obligation of the wife as well.

Now, it had to be stated here more bluntly because, as we’ve said, this wife does not have the protection of dowry. If she has the protection of dowry, then she obviously has been provided to her the adequate food and clothing that the dowry gives her.

And the last point here is that if he fails to provide these three, she may divorce him without the return of the dowry by the father. Verse 11: If he does not do these three for her, then she shall go out free without paying money. She doesn’t have to be redeemed. The dowry that he provided to her father does not have to be repaid to him.

And this case law sets forth the truth that when a divorce occurs on the part of the wife toward the husband for cause—biblical reasons—then there’s no return of the dowry to the husband if he is in the wrong. And so this case law sets forth that truth. It also sets forth the truth that for all husbands and wives, failure to provide food, clothing, or response are legitimate grounds for divorce.

Now, we’re not looking for divorce, but I think that if we look in our society today and we see most American wives not endowed, and as a result of them not being endowed, more needful of provision and protection from the husband, and then see these wives in many cases in our country systematically abused and yet staying with their husbands—why? Because they don’t have the independence that the dowry would provide to get away from his denial of her feeding and sheltering and proper response.

So the scriptures point out for us that dowry is an assumption of marriage. The dowry is not returned to the husband if it’s his fault for the divorce. And further, in addition to the joyful obligation we have of providing a dowry for our wife, we have the joyful obligation of providing good food and, by way of analogy, proper nourishment to our wives. We have the joyful obligation of providing shelter, clothing, good clothing—thick robe is what the word means—shelter and guarding of our wives, and proper response in terms of communion with our wives.

These are the requirements of marriage according to the scriptures. Now I say these are a joyful response. Why do these case laws start with these laws regarding servitude? Well, how do the Ten Commandments—how do the 10 words—start? “I am the Lord thy God, which brought thee out of the land of bondage.” God has redeemed us from servitude. And he’s showing us how to live as free people. He’s showing us how to live our lives in joyful response to the kind master who calls us to dedicate ourselves to his service all of our lives, to have our ears opened to joyfully do the commandment of our heavenly father.

And the commandment of our heavenly father relative to our wives is to guard them, to nurture them, and in doing so to properly respond to them in the context of our Christian home. And as part of this provision, to endow them that they may never be said to not be properly nurtured or guarded by us.

Do you see that as a joyful obligation? If I’ve expounded the scriptures correctly, hopefully you will say, as the people of Israel said to God, “Whatsoever the judgments of God are that he has commanded us, we shall do these things.” And as you come forward, consecrate yourselves anew to the joyful obligations of the man who willingly sacrifices himself in loving his wife.

**[TRANSITION TO SERMON APPLICATION: Saving Private Ryan]**

I finally saw Saving Private Ryan this last week, Memorial Day week—you know, a good week to watch a war movie. I enjoyed it greatly, and it is a picture of course of the honor and duty that I spoke of last week. The fidelity that the seventh commandment requires of us as men, as heads of households, particularly as husbands. I believe the seventh commandment requires us as well to faithfulness in our wives—in terms of the dowry, in terms of guarding, nurturing, clothing and shelter, and also a proper response to them.

You know, we are called to lay down our lives to serve God. If we understood that our freedom, our liberation from Egypt, was purchased by the death of the Lord Jesus Christ—and not just the death, but the suffering of hell, the taking upon himself of our sins—if we really understood the full nature of that, if that was made visible to us instead of a matter of belief or faith, our response would be more quick. Our response would be more ready. Our response would be more joyous to do these things relative to our wives that God has called us to do, and wives relative to their husbands.

Part of the purpose, I think, of art and films, is indeed to provide examples for us that picture what these truths of scripture assert. And of course, in Saving Private Ryan, it was a story about sacrifice—about the death of one man for the life of another—and ultimately of the great sacrifice of the Lord Jesus Christ.

The movie begins with a man in Arlington with the crosses in the graveyard there and ends in the same place with crosses. The cross put before and after the beginning and end of this movie. And as the war scene starts, crosses are there too—they’re on their sides, though. Things aren’t right in warfare. The cross is there, but it’s tough times, and the thing moves forward to conclusion at the pivotal scene where the captain—Captain Miller, I believe—gives his life ultimately for Private Ryan.

They’re on a bridge. They’re protecting it against these German tanks that are coming. And his job is both to protect the nation and defeat the Germans, but also protect this one man. So it’s kind of a picture of salvation of the one and the many through this self-sacrificial death of this man on this bridge, played by Tom Hanks. And he’s sitting there and he’s done all he could and he’s sort of dazed, and the tanks are starting to roll toward Private Ryan across the bridge, and the Germans will get a big advantage in the war.

And all he has left—he’s done everything he could. He’s sitting there probably dying, and he’s got a pistol and he’s shooting at the tank. You know, he’s still doing his duty. He’s still keeping faith. Even when it seems pointless to do his duty, he continues to do his duty.

There may be some of you in your relationships with your mates, with your spouses, with your children, with other people, with the church, where it seems that all you’re doing is shooting a gun at a tank. It can’t possibly work. But that movie shows us the reality. Because what happens is a tank-killing plane comes down and blows that tank up just as he shoots at it. And at first you wonder if he’s blown the tank up. But no, this plane rather has come through and blown the tank up.

And as the plane banks and turns—and remember these guys know just what they’re doing. They, everything is scripted. The plane heads up and out so it forms a cross in the sky at that point. Well, it wouldn’t if it was just flying away. It goes up and out. So it forms a cross—a picture of the cross of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Well, Private Ryan then comes up to the captain—he’s dying there on the bridge—and the captain looks up at him and he says, “Angels on our shoulders.” He had referred to that earlier, and he smiles, and he says it. I think he said, “Yates,” because who was by. And then he tells Private Ryan, whose life he has been devoted to saving here, him and this platoon of men—most of them, maybe all of them—most of them have now died to save this one man. And this captain is now dying on this bridge as well to save this one man. He says, “Earn this. Earn it. Earn it. Earn your salvation. Earn your deliverance from death effected by my death.”

Now he doesn’t see all that. All he says is, “Earn this. Earn it.” He says it twice. Later, at the end of the movie, Ryan is talking to his wife as an old man, and he’s looking at the graves of these men, and he’s saying, “Have I been a good man?” And she says, “Yes, you have.”

We can’t earn our salvation. That’s not the point of the movie. But the point is we should know what Jesus Christ has done. That there are angels on our shoulders. That ultimately it’s the Lord Jesus Christ who gives his life—pictured artistically in the film by Tom Hanks playing this role. It’s the Lord Jesus Christ who dies that we might live, that we might continue to do our duty toward our wives, toward our jobs, toward our children, toward our church, toward our country by proclaiming the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ, even when it only looks like guns shooting at tanks and no help.

We have help from above. We have help from the cross of the Lord Jesus Christ. And that is the reason why these are joyful obligations.

As Tom Hanks is dying on that bridge, his countenance changes. While he was doing his duty, he was sort of shell-shocked. When he sees what has happened—that the angels have come and blown up the tank and saved Ryan and saved the country—he’s got a satisfaction with his life.

May we have that kind of satisfaction at the end of our lives, having provided our wives with what the scriptures tell us we should provide them, having loved them self-sacrificially. Jesus died that our deaths might have purpose, that our sacrifices—exceedingly minor compared to his—might be the things that mark our lives as joyful responses to his great sacrifice. He makes the man played by Tom Hanks self-sacrificial for another.

And Ryan then lives his life as a good man, sacrificing himself for his family and others. And God says that in doing this he makes heroes, as it were, of all of us.

May God grant us the grace. May he grant us today an understanding as we approach the table of our Lord later in this service—a belief that the Lord Jesus Christ has died that we might live and has redeemed us from slavery and all of its horrors and brought us willingly into his household to serve the master by serving the master’s wife that he’s provided to us and the children he’s given us as well.

**Pastor Tuuri:** Let’s pray. Father, make these things real in our hearts. May your Spirit write this word upon our hearts. We thank you for your law and the graciousness of it. Help us, Father, to walk in obedience to it—not just in obedience, but joyful obedience—knowing the death of the Lord Jesus Christ has accomplished our redemption. In his name we pray. Amen.

**[CONGREGATIONAL HYMN]**

For the beauty of the earth, for the beauty of the skies, for the love which from our birth over and around us lies, Christ our God, to thee we raise this our sacrifice of praise.

For the beauty of each hour of the day and of the night, hill and vale and tree and flower, sun and moon and stars of light, Christ our God, to thee we raise this our sacrifice of praise.

For the joy of ear and eye, for the heart and mind’s delight, for the mystic harmony linking sense to sound and sight, Christ our God, to thee we raise this our sacrifice of praise.

For the joy of human love, brother, sister, parent, child, friends on earth and friends above, for all gentle thoughts and miles, Christ our God, to thee we raise this our sacrifice of praise.

For thyself, best gift divine, to our race so freely given, for that great love of thine, peace on earth and joy in heaven, Christ our God, to thee we raise this our sacrifice of praise.

**[PASTORAL PRAYER – Based on Psalm 45]**

**Pastor Tuuri:** Today’s prayer will be taken from Psalm 45. Let us go to our sovereign king in prayer.

My heart is overflowing with a good theme. I recite my composition concerning the king. My tongue is the pen of a ready writer. You are fairer than the sons of men. Grace is poured upon your lips. Therefore, God has blessed you forever. Gird up your sword upon your thigh, oh mighty one, with your glory and your majesty. And in your majesty ride prosperously because of truth, humility, and righteousness. And your right hand shall teach you awesome things.

The glory and majesty of the king is a good theme. Direct our hearts, our wills, our minds, and our strength accordingly. Keep us from lusting after idols and enemies of the king. Grant us the wisdom to love and to live under your government, the theocracy from above.

Your arrows are sharp in the heart of the king’s enemies. The peoples fall under you. You are a king who is willing and able to destroy your enemies and our enemies. Give us comfort, oh Lord, that we would delight in your protection and your guarding of us.

Your throne, oh God, is forever and ever. A scepter of righteousness is the scepter of your kingdom. You love righteousness and hate wickedness. Therefore, God, your God, has anointed you with the oil of gladness more than your companions. All your garments are scented with myrrh and aloes and cassia out of the ivory palaces by which they have made you glad.

Remind and teach us, O Lord, that your kingdom is not a sterile kingdom of mere intellectual ascent. Rather, your kingdom is a fullbodied kingdom with gladness, with fellowship, beauty, sweet smells, endurance, and righteousness.

King’s daughters are among your honorable women. At your right hand stands the queen in gold from Ophir. Listen, O daughter, consider and incline your ear. Forget your own people also and your father’s house.

As your people, we are chosen by you. As your people, you require our single-minded devotion. You have said, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. And whoever does not bear his cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.”

Grant us the wisdom to place you first, so that as we do relate to our earthly relatives, we do so in such a way that honors you. So as we consider guarding and nurturing our wives and our daughters, help us to do so in the light of your way and for your glory.

And oh Lord, as we consider your guarding and nurture of us, help us to delight in that and not to go whoring off to other guards and other nurturing. So the king will greatly desire your beauty because he is your lord. Worship him.

Grant us, oh Lord, the desire, the skill, the humility, the spirit, and the truth to worship you in your way. But not only us individually, but us corporately as a unified bride in this body and in your church throughout the globe. And whatsoever obstacles there are that prevent or hinder our worship, we pray that you would reveal those to us and grant us victory over them.

We pray, oh Lord, as we consider and prepare for family camp, that you would prepare our hearts to understand that it’s not just fun and games—although that is included—but it is a term of corporate convocation and corporate commitment to learn more about you and to worship you and to be united more fully in such a way that we glorify and honor you on this earth.

The daughter of Tyre will come with a gift. The rich among the people will seek your favor. The royal daughter is all glorious within the palace. Her clothing is woven with gold. She shall be brought to the king in robes of many colors. The virgins, her companions who follow her, shall be brought to you with gladness and rejoicing. They shall be brought. They shall enter the king’s palace.

Grant, O Lord, that we should not show contempt for our brothers and sisters in Christ. For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ. For it is written, “As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.” So then each of us shall give an account of himself to God. Therefore, let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this: not to put a stumbling block or cause to fall in our brother’s way.

And as the bride of Christ, we have been betrothed to one husband, that we may be presented as a chastened virgin to Christ. Keep us, oh Lord, from the craftiness of the serpent, and nourish us in the simplicity of Christ.

Instead of your fathers shall be your sons, whom you shall make princes in the earth. I will make your name to be remembered in all generations. Therefore, the people shall praise you forever and ever. We acknowledge and accept that this is your will—that all generations shall remember your glorious name and that all people shall praise you forever and ever.

At this time we ask for special strength and comfort and encouragement to those mothers that you’ve given us in our congregation and the congregation of Christ at Sovereign Covenant Church who are either due or late or very close. In particular, Martha P., Karen D., Jessica K., and Jennifer H. We just pray for special blessing upon them. For we know that all generations shall remember your name.

And as we give birth to a new generation, help us, oh Lord, to be wise and to instruct our children in the ways of God and not to forsake our children, that the next generation would also rise up and give you glory.

And help us, oh Lord, to learn to pray. And we thank you for our Lord teaching us how to pray. And let us conclude with praying the Lord’s Prayer.

Our Father, which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. Amen.

**[FINAL READING]**

Please stand for the final scripture reading. I’ll read Psalm number one. The first psalm. Should you delve into the case laws of Exodus, it’s a good reminder to us of how important it is to meditate on these things. Often times we think they’re cold and sterile, but they’re full of life-giving instruction. Psalm number one.

Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in his law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither, and whatever he does shall prosper.

The ungodly are not so, but are like the chaff which the wind drives away. Therefore, the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. For the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the ungodly shall perish.

**[CONGREGATIONAL HYMN]**

Give us a home built firm upon the Savior, where Christ is head and counselor and guide, where every child is taught his love and favor and gives his heart to Christ the crucified.

How sweet to hear, though his footsteps waver, his faithful Lord is walking by his side. Oh, give us home with godly fathers, mothers, who always place their hope and trust in him, whose tender patience, tact and courage trouble cannot do. A home where each finds joy in serving others and love still shines though days be dark and grim.

Oh Lord our God, our homes are thine forever. We trust in thee. Their problems still as care. Their bonds of love no enemy can sever. If thou art, Lord, and master them, be thou the center of our least endeavor. Be thou our death, our hearts and homes to share.

**[BENEDICTION]**

**Pastor Tuuri:** Receive the benediction of our almighty God. The Lord bless you and keep you. The Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.

How blessed be Jehovah God, the God of Israel, who only doeth wondrous works in glory that excels—to only do it wondrous works in glory that excels—and blessed be his glorious name to all eternity. The whole earth let his glory fill. Let it be the whole earth. Let his glory fill. Amen. So let it be.

This ends the first part of our formal worship. We’ll now have a time where we transform this room from an auditorium to a cafeteria. You’re invited to stay with us to eat with us. And then from there we’ll stay here, but we’ll proceed to the Lord’s Supper. And you’re also invited to stay with us for that also.

So you are dismissed.